After reading about the book, "A Complaint Free World", I decided that I would stop complaining. I thought this would make me a more positive person and actually work on problems rather than just complain. Then I had a meeting with my manager at work that gave me a lightbulb moment - I wasn't more positive. I had just stopped caring. Instead of working to solve problems, I just assumed that no one cared, so why should I? It really ticked me off that I let myself become so complacent with things because it was like I was writing "victim" across my forehead.
Oh, why complain? It doesn't matter what I think anyway...it won't matter,
everyone does whatever they want anyway...I'll just be the bigger person and go
along with it...blah blah blah