I've been at this stay-at-home mom gig for almost three years and I have a confession to make...
I'm not very good at it.
Before staying home, I had visions of a clean house, wonderful home cooked meals, and educational activities with the kids daily. I knew it would take some time to adjust and get the routines down, but we're heading into year four and my house is still a mess and some days the most education my kids get at home is learning the new catchy tune from Sponge Bob. I do have the home cooked meal thing down somewhat - mainly because our pared down budget requires it. Otherwise we'd become very close friends with Papa John. I'm beginning to realize that this home management thing is something I'm not naturally good at. But I want to be. So with help from
Money Saving Mom and
Nony the Slob, I'm taking some steps to get this life under control.
Crystal at Money Saving Mom writes a list of
10 goals each week and posts them on her blog. I loved the idea of having specific goals in the different areas of my life (Household, Mothering, etc.) and I hope the accountability of posting it online would help me keep on track.
I also am
stealing borrowing the
daily checklist from Nony the Slob. I've modified it a bit to fit our needs, but it's the same basic idea.
Hopefully I'll start to become a little less "chicken with her head cut off" and a little more "this chick's got it together".
By the way, here are my goals for this week:
Mothering/Family
- Read the Christmas books we got from the library.
- Make snow globes.
Personal Goals
- Be in bed by 10:30 or before.
- Finish reading "The County Fair"
- Read a chapter in the Bible each night.
Home Management
- Finish cloth doll diapers (Christmas gift for Brenna)
- Sew pants for Brooke (also a Christmas gift!)
- Move craft drawers into the family room
- Find 3 recipes for freezer cooking
Blog
- Blog 3 times this week. I've listed topics I want to cover, but I don't want to spoil the surprise :)
So do you think I can do it? Do you have goals for this week? What do you do to stay on track? Or do you feel as aimless as I do most days?